And with each passing year, the pattern becomes more familiar - another string of disappointing relationships that fizzle out, another round of dates that go nowhere, or perhaps even retreating into the comfort of being alone rather than risking more disappointment. You find yourself building higher walls to protect your heart, focusing on your career because at least there you know how to succeed.
The truth is, the longer this cycle continues, the further you drift from the deep, fulfilling love you know in your heart you deserve. You might catch yourself starting to believe that maybe this is just how it is for successful women - that you'll have to choose between settling for less than you want or accepting a life without partnership.
But it doesn't have to be this way.